Over the past few years, a lot has shifted… for everyone. While life has moved forward since the pandemic whooped us all 5 years ago, does anyone really feel completely back to where they were? I know I didn’t just snap back into it—finding balance took time. And honestly, I still feel off on some days. I work with many women who feel the same way, asking, “Why don’t I feel motivated to put in effort anymore?” Does that resonate? If so – keep reading. Let’s talk about the real reasons you’re struggling to get dressed!
The truth is, when everything changed, most of us didn’t give ourselves the space to fully recover. And that includes how we choose to show up, especially in how we dress. (I’m in style for a living, and it took me ages to put on anything other than sweatpants!) Shopping or getting dressed just didn’t feel like a priority when we were stuck in those mindsets. But I’m here to help you understand why this may still be happening for you—and how you can shift it!
Real Talk: The Real Reasons You’re Struggling To Get Dressed
- Your lifestyle has changed. My friend – no matter the reason for the change, it’s time to accept it. Your day-to-day requires a new approach to getting dressed! Emerging from your postpartum haze and starting to go outside again? You need clothes that make you feel comfortable and confident. Have you moved? Walking or taking the train to work? Depending on the weather – you’ve got to dress for the elements! Networking a big part of your new gig? Upping your day-to-night outfits for corporate happy hour culture is essential. Step 1: accept. Step 2: adapt!
- You’re evolving… and aging. (The terror!) Many of my clients are particularly concerned with making sure they dress their age. While this is totally valid – it can’t be the only thing that dictates how you dress. At the end of the day – exceptional, authentic style starts with understanding who YOU are. That’s why I work with my clients to help them discover their unique Polished ID™ Style Personality. Once you have it, you’ll understand your unique taste level. That understanding will give you the permission to rock anything you want to wear with absolute confidence!
- Your current closet is overstuffed. I’m going to get a little real for a second: stop hanging onto sh!t you don’t wear! You’re making it impossible to get dressed in the morning because you’re looking at 6 different versions of yourself. Clean out that closet, girl! Once you’ve done that, pull everything in your closet you like – and wear most often – to the very front. Then identify the gaps in basic items – and fill them in with this guide. Better yet, build a capsule wardrobe that’s dependent upon tried-and-true, versatile staples!
Let’s Level Up How You Show Up!
If you’re ready to reconnect to your style and update your personal brand with intention, download the FREE The Polished ID™ Playbook. This playbook holds everything I’ve ever learned, and I’m giving it away to you for FREE! Or if you’re overwhelmed and frustrated and in a style rut, contact me HERE to set up a Style Chat! I’ve got all kinds of offerings up my sleeve this year… starting with the Level Up Personal Branding Workshop! Get on the waitlist for an exclusive discount that runs through THIS WEEKEND ONLY. Can’t wait to see you there!
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